Dating should happen in a way that makes both participants comfortable and smoking will just ruin a moment that's crucial in determining if there a future for what's being experienced (as a first meet-up).
Smoking is obviously bad for your health (and deadly, let's not forget that) but it's also poison for your mind. Smoking is toxic all around so smoking while dating will send the message you don't mind intoxicating yourself, first and foremost while also hurting others.
However you try to justify smoking, it always comes down to having poor judgement and little (or no) respect for others, even when dating which implies the other participant has expressed some level of interest, in you.
A cigarette will never be a "positive" in your life. It'll never make you shine or look cool. You just look dumb and somewhat easy to manipulate. And chances are, you're way better than that so why risk so much by smoking? It makes no sense so take it upon yourself to never smoke, especially not when on a date.
Smelling bad, looking silly and harming yourself and others just doesn't make sense in general but it's even worse in a dating context.
Be yourself, be respectful and love yourself enough to never, ever smoke.
Your entire life is an experience in free will but it doesn't mean you should choose the very worst, for yourself and those you happen to love.
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