Sunday, September 20, 2015

Go easy on the questions

It's all too normal to want to know stuff about your date but for every question you ask, especially on a first date, be sure to ask yourself if it was as all necessary.

You see, too many questions can ruin the moment.

As if you'd fail to appreciate the moment enough to enjoy it without shooting your mouth on overdrive.

Lawyers tend to impress a jury with their questions but since this particular context is that of a date, acting like an inquisitive jerk will backfire, badly.

Even if your date wants to please you with answers, it'll quickly get tiresome to be drilled with everything from "where are from" to "where to, from this point on", not to mention the sillier questions pertaining to taste and preferences.

In a more relaxed scenario, the answer to most questions will just pop here and there in a civilized conversation between people getting to know each other.

No pressure will works wonders. A first date already has enough stress, why play the annoying thousand questions game when it can just flow naturally through a slower paced exchange?

When it's time to ask a question, you'll know but don't get ahead of yourself trying to know everything, the wrong "questions galore" way.

If you were to ask questions, be sure to listen to the answers so you can make good use of them to make your date more comfortable. Pick up on the details and do the extra mile to make the moment, well, somewhat coherent with the answers.

So questions, yes but going easy will likely shine a positive light on you.

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